Stop Chasing People

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There are two things we should never chase: true love and true friends. People make time for who they want to make time for. People text and reply to people they want to talk to. When someone tells you they’re too busy continuously, believe them. When someone are ignoring your messages, that means they are trying to takes space from you, they are trying to get rid of you. Don’t try to convince them otherwise. Don’t try to force them to make time for you. If they want to, they will. It hurts, but you can’t force someone to have feelings on you.

Remember, the genie in Aladdin could do everything apart from that. Even the one who can do everything, can’t make someone to fall for you. You shouldn’t have to beg someone to love you. You shouldn’t beg someone to care. You shouldn’t have to beg someone to try. You shouldn’t have to beg someone to talk to you and you shouldn’t have to beg someone to put first. If they want, they would. People encourage and support those people whom they want to see at the top, whom they want to see successful. If there is no one to tap your back, be one to tap your back, if there is no one to encourage you, encourage yourself. But, get never disappoint.

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Don’t let people become priority in your life. When all you are to them is an option. Don’t try to hold onto someone trying to let go of you. And don’t beg someone to stay when all they want to do is leave instead, hold open the door for them. You can never convince someone to love or chase you like, you chased them. You can’t demand for someone to have those feelings for you. And notice, there’s somebody probably chasing you while you are chasing someone else. It’s a full loop. If people are able to forget what you said, what you told to do so, One day they can even forget you.This shows your priority in their life.And remember, if you can figure out where you stand with someone it might be time to stop standing and start walking. 

Letting go doesn’t mean you stop caring it just means you stopped trying to force them to care. If they want to talk to you, they will. If they want to make things work, they will. If they want to be with you, they will. Don’t let things be one-sided. It’s not healthy or fair on you.

As Will Smith said, “Don’t chase people be yourself. Do your own things and work hard. Because the right people, the one’s who really belong in your life will come to you and stay. “ 

Be with someone who adore your and can't ignore you - Michael Vladimir